While coaching couples, we occasionally hear someone complain that they don’t find their spouse attractive any more. They usually say it in one of two ways: Either as something their spouse is doing wrong and needs to fix or as a sign that healing the relationship is hopeless. 

There are many reasons why we might fall out of attraction for our spouse, but not all of them are things that they need to fix! This week we try to tackle this difficult problem and give some practical steps you can take that can actually help change the situation!